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Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

Last post 03-30-2008 2:06 AM by lilkegler. 26 replies.
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  • 01-14-2008 9:32 AM

    Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Can anyone tell me what anyone in their right mind is thinking when a bowling center promotes birthday parties aimed at 7- to 10-year-old children (bowling, pizza, cake, etc. – all that good “kid” stuff) on weekends, then proceeds to have this supposed “hip-hop” music blaring from their speakers (which in most cases is nothing more than vulgar gutter language spoken to a beat) that most responsible parents wouldn’t let a TEEN listen to, much less a child of single-digit age? 

     

    Am I too old to practice on weekends or is this truly what happens when there is no MANAGEMENT in the building on the weekends?  I experienced this on a Sunday afternoon (yesterday, to be exact) and know for a fact that there were no managers in the building – a lot of “shift leaders” (and none over  the age of 30), but no “managers”.  Yes, Another Management Flaw, in case you hadn’t already figured it out.     

     

    Rant over. 

     

    What say you?  Our lines are open …

      

     

    This is Mike Smith, and I approved this message. I'm not a lawyer, but I'd like to play one on TV.


  • 01-14-2008 10:52 AM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Dear Mike: The phrase "anyone in their right mind" is likely the "operative" one (with regard to the situation you describe).
    I'm Bill Herald, and I approve this post.
  • 01-14-2008 1:32 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Mike, I also do not see the attraction of music with vulgar and demeaning language. Was there an actual birthday party going on for children in that age group?
  • 01-14-2008 2:58 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Actually, Cicada, there were several -- out of 48 lanes, I dare say 14 had such parties in progress (geez, April must've been a busy month).
    This is Mike Smith, and I approved this message. I'm not a lawyer, but I'd like to play one on TV.


  • 01-14-2008 4:59 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

     What do you think of the following true and current situation?

    One of our area centers has a fairly large gay/*** league, and many of the team names can't be posted here (and certainly not used in my bowling column).

    However, most of the frequent birthday parties are conducted on the left side of the house, and in a prominent location, there is a plaque that lists the names of the championship teams in the gay/*** league for the past 10 years or so.

    I can just imagine some parents attempting to explain to their youngsters if any of them were to ask, "What does x&$# *&@#$ mean, daddy?" [improper words deleted]. 

    I'm Bill Herald, and I approve this post.
  • 01-14-2008 5:33 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Mike300Smith wrote the following post at Mon, Jan 14 2008 3:58 PM: Actually, Cicada, there were several -- out of 48 lanes, I dare say 14 had such parties in progress (geez, April must've been a busy month). The quote function seems to be on the fritz tonite...anyhoo Where in the heck were their parents? I would have said change the music or me and my money are taking a walk.
  • 01-14-2008 7:12 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    MightyFish:

     What do you think of the following true and current situation?

    One of our area centers has a fairly large gay/*** league, and many of the team names can't be posted here (and certainly not used in my bowling column).

    However, most of the frequent birthday parties are conducted on the left side of the house, and in a prominent location, there is a plaque that lists the names of the championship teams in the gay/*** league for the past 10 years or so.

    I can just imagine some parents attempting to explain to their youngsters if any of them were to ask, "What does x&$# *&@#$ mean, daddy?" [improper words deleted]. 

    Not that I disagree with you, but are you not the biggest opponent of censorship, and the suppression of freedom of speech. Would not removing that plaque be a form of censorship, or a violation of their 1st Amendment rights???????
  • 01-14-2008 7:17 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    What is hard to understand here? The proprietor wants bowling to be popular to the age group that enjoys the vulgar rap music. He is not interested in attracting accomplished bowlers. He is looking to attract mindless consumers, but Mike keeps cramping his style by showing up on weekends in his blue bowling shirt making the place look like a bowling alley.

  • 01-14-2008 7:37 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Doctor Doom:
    Not that I disagree with you, but are you not the biggest opponent of censorship, and the suppression of freedom of speech. Would not removing that plaque be a form of censorship, or a violation of their 1st Amendment rights???????

    Dear Doctor Doom:

    I just sent you a PM listing some of the names. Do you believe it's proper to have such names prominently displayed -- especially in the area where youngsters' birthday parties are conducted? 

    I'm Bill Herald, and I approve this post.
  • 01-14-2008 7:59 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    MightyFish:

    Doctor Doom:
    Not that I disagree with you, but are you not the biggest opponent of censorship, and the suppression of freedom of speech. Would not removing that plaque be a form of censorship, or a violation of their 1st Amendment rights???????

    Dear Doctor Doom:

    I just sent you a PM listing some of the names. Do you believe it's proper to have such names prominently displayed -- especially in the area where youngsters' birthday parties are conducted? 

    Reply sent, and that is an actual event, like I said try explaining that to an 8 year old.
  • 01-14-2008 8:17 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Dear Doctor Doom: You are correct that, in general, I am anti-censorship ... but I certainly feel that vulgar and profane words shouldn't be a part of discussion forums (or prominently displayed in a family bowling center).
    I'm Bill Herald, and I approve this post.
  • 01-14-2008 8:32 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    MightyFish:

     

    Dear Doctor Doom: You are correct that, in general, I am anti-censorship ... but I certainly feel that vulgar and profane words shouldn't be a part of discussion forums (or prominently displayed in a family bowling center).
    No disagreement there. Remember what happened the last time I copied a post that had profanity in it.
  • 01-14-2008 8:43 PM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Back on topic. Mike we had a center in Montgomery that I use the love to practice at. It had a lot of birthday parties on Saturday and Sunday. Usually I would go on Saturday afternoon .95 a game could not go wrong. The only problem was out of the blue and at no specific time, on would come the lasers, smoke, mirrored balls, and Rap at it's best. The decibles were louder than a jet taxiway. Ten minutes of that and out the door I went.

  • 01-15-2008 6:49 AM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Is "Exploring Uranus" one of those names, by any chance?

  • 01-15-2008 11:09 AM In reply to

    Re: Birthday Parties and Questionable Music (c-RAP)

    Doctor Doom:

    Back on topic. Mike we had a center in Montgomery that I use the love to practice at. It had a lot of birthday parties on Saturday and Sunday. Usually I would go on Saturday afternoon .95 a game could not go wrong. The only problem was out of the blue and at no specific time, on would come the lasers, smoke, mirrored balls, and Rap at it's best. The decibles were louder than a jet taxiway. Ten minutes of that and out the door I went.

    Thanks, Doc, for bringing this back on-topic.  I'm with you on that one.  I used to run a moonlight doubles tournament back in the day, but the only difference was the lights were out (just pinlights and telescores -- where's THAT word been?) lit up the lanes -- no music, no smoke, but a packed building of 150 couples at Saturday midnight.  In the scenario you describe, you can't even hear the pins fall.  Besides, those blacklights they use nowadays give me a migraine. 

     

    This is Mike Smith, and I approved this message. I'm not a lawyer, but I'd like to play one on TV.


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